Child Maintenance Advice -Johannesburg

Charmaine SitholePosted on10:26 am - Aug 6, 2018

Hi am currently five months pregnant and the person responsible said he doesn’t want anything to do with me and the baby.He suggested I have abortion of which I didn’t agree with it.U don’t want to leave this matter till it late.Hes working and can afford to support the child am currently unemployed @the moment it hard having to go clinic and visit a gynaecologist now and again.My worry is that he can change the address where he’s currently staying but I know where he works a big company.I don’t have the energy to fight or neither to call him.It clear to me that I’ve been sleeping with an animal.Please if you can assist

AnniePosted on1:47 pm - Sep 30, 2018

The father of son he pay 1000 amonth. When ask if he can increase the money. He said not gone pay extra

nninaPosted on11:28 am - Nov 5, 2018

hi im magdie m 32 yrs with 2 kids ,working as a contract, and doing office administration course ,,so does my father has powers to drop the maintannance?thank u

kagishoPosted on11:42 am - Nov 17, 2018

good day.need help want to apply for maintenance but the problem its that i don’t know where my baby daddy work right now, because he has been fired from the work place he was working before but i guess he find another job cause after the birth our baby he started to fight with me nd change the number,address as well.i used to talk to him via email and he threaten me.

he block me every where.can i get help please

MandilakhePosted on10:27 am - Nov 20, 2018

Greetings I was supposed to be in court by the 14th of November 2018 for child DNA as the they say am a father but I couldn’t be there because I didn’t have enough money for traveling from Cape Town and to Mount Frere, so I need your advice what can I do to make things right before they arrest me

TsholoPosted on1:29 am - Dec 1, 2018

I want to open a case for maintenance for the father of my child, he stop paying maintenance because I now have a boyfriend. Does the fact that I earn more than him count?

Ramadimetsa SelamolelaPosted on7:12 pm - Jan 9, 2019

Good day ive moved from Pretoria to Polokwane 4 yrs back and was not receiving maintenance money since then, I want to know if I can get the unclaimed money since then as I had family problems to make follow ups on that?

NatashaPosted on12:10 am - Jan 30, 2019

I have a 4month daughter with a man who refuses to support her in any way. I have on many occasions tried reaching out to him to get him to commit to atleast something which he has countlessly failed to do. He insists on dna testing as he denies the child but will not commit to doing it… I have even gone as far as voluntaring to meet him half way after contacting a paternity testing facility. The problem I’m having now is that my daughter’s birth certificate is still pending at home affairs because i was subjected to a late registration because of personal reasons and then told it would take up to 6months for them to issue it out. I registered her when she was a month old.

My biggest issue right now is that I need financial assistance from him and I was told when I went to the family court that nothing can be done without the birth certificate.

I wanted to know if there could be another way to deal with this whole situation or better getting a court order that would subject him to actually taking the dna test so he can at least commit to supporting our daughter while we wait for the birth certificate? I just wanted to get advice or a way forward.

Nandipha GowaPosted on12:49 pm - Mar 4, 2019

Hi there, I was born 1981 have two sisters one is born 1983 and one 1989 then last one was born my father sad the two is not his 1981 and 1989 then we went for DNA test we were send by Home affairs just want to know where can I get the result print out because he only supported the other sister of mine can you give me advise because he just recently passed away want claim what is rightfully mine he never got married he stayed with girlfriend with no children , where do I start?

ErinPosted on8:43 pm - Mar 8, 2019

Since 2003 until 2016 I have been in and out of the maintenance court. The clerk never used her power to make the father pay. I want to know if I can sue the court for the stress and problems and losses I had to go through. Now I get told that the clerk is doing 3 people’s job. Also that they must be sent for training to know how to deal with me. So my question is who employ a person. And pay a salary of that person don’t know her job description.

Gugulethu KhozaPosted on4:08 pm - Jun 9, 2019

Good day, I am 4 months pregnant and my baby daddy denies the pregnancy and says he will not be responsible for this child. I do have a job but I do not earn enough to give my soon coming child the best. The father works well off and I feel it is unfair for him to deny his child a better life then what I can proved alone. What should I do, he has moved from where he was staying but still works for the same company