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There are various other family law resources on this website that you may find useful. For example, there is a downloadable child maintenance calculator. The resources may assist you with whatever questions you have, or information you require on Divorce. Therefore, after posting your question, or any time after, have a look at the useful resources and information on our website. Some of these resources are listed hereafter.

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There is a range of legal articles on this website dealing with various family law issues. Some of these articles are straight forward, outlining the legal position on family law-related topics. For example, how to apply for child maintenance, or how to get divorced. Other articles are written in the form of answering a specific legal question. For example, do I pay maintenance if I am unemployed, or what do I do if I want to leave the country with my child, and the other parent does not want to provide consent? Those articles are in blog format. This means that you are welcome to comment or pose questions to increase our knowledge base. The clear idea behind our website is that we want to make family law legal information more accessible and available to the public.

Downloadable resources

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1 Free Basic Will Tool Kit

2. Free Shariah Will Template

3. Free Divorce Starter Tool Kit

4. Free Child Maintenance Calculator

5. Free DIY Urgent Child Contact Toolkit

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42 thoughts on “Divorce Questions, Answers and Free Resources – Get information now.

  1. Good day… I have applied for a divorce but before the divorce could be finalized i had a liquidation order so that the process could be finazlized quicker, date was 19 August 2019. The process still went on and on and the divorce was finalized on the 25 May 2020. I would like to find out do i need to pay my spouse my pension fund for date of liquidation or date of divorce decree?

  2. Hi
    My husband told me he is divorcing me October month. the same month he took me off the medical aid. He is still living in the rental residence. I am paying rent, food and all expenses for our child. He only gives me R1000 per month. Can I ask him to move out even though the divorce is not final? I cannot support him with food. We both signed the rental agreement. I am trying to live according to my budget seeing that I have to pay my own medical aid. I also want to get a smaller rental that suits my pocket

  3. good day
    my brother and his wife have been living apart for 2years now and the wife moved out of the house along with the things she bought while they were married…my brother is left at his house (not in both their names) with his car…my brother is not working anymore and the wife does not want to file for devorce yet she is living with someone else, they share a son together….what can I do to help my brother

  4. I am married in community of property with a husband that works out of the country that come home every 4months but now he let me know that he doesnt love me anymore & want a divorce, i recently closed my shop because of recession in South Africa & is unemployed..what is my rights,he still have a place to stay, a salary every month & want to put our house in the market..we both been married before with our own set of children but dont have children together, please advice,thank you..

  5. In my divorce settlement, there was an amount stipulated to take care of pets. I agreed to this payment under duress at the time, as I wanted to provide as best as I could for the animals’ welfare during the divorce. The divorce decree was issued four years ago, and my ex still insists on receiving payment to take care of the pets. I do not wish to continue with these payments as I believe that my ex should take sole responsibility for the animals since deciding to keep them. Do I have any recourse to address the matter since I did agree to the settlement terms? Is there a way to dissolve this part of the agreement or seek new terms? The ex has since married so I would like to understand what my rights are in this matter.

    1. Good day
      There are a few issues that need to be considered. The first is whether the maintenance of the pets is seen as maintenance and the second that your spouse remarried. We would advise that you take the issue further with proper legal assistance.

      1. The payment is for the care of pets and not seen as maintenance, and this is a clause in the settlement agreement that forms part of the divorce decree. What needs to be considered in terms of a spouse being remarried? Does this circumstance allow me to terminate these payments without legal reprisal? How can a lawyer help me?

  6. Do I need any other court orders if I have a divorce order with a clause on division of joint property confirmed to be effeceted/implemented (RDp) House in a different jurisdiction/Province of the court the court that issued it? Before consulting a Sherriff to implement the order?

  7. Good day,

    I just realised this year after many nights of research that I married a narcissistic wife. I have many facts to back this view up. She has torn down my self-esteem and we are financially broke in some way. I am self-employed and have lost clients due to depression and lack of focus on my work. She has always been a house-wife, who nevertheless, go out clubbing on a regular basis. Now she is self-employed, doing a network marketing. She has not started making money though. I discovered from her WhatsApp communications that she has been discussing with her friends and family that she would divorce me as soon as she makes enough money and that she should use me as far as possible to get what she wants until she gives me a shock of my life by divorcing me.

    I need to divorce her. My concern is that our standard of living has deteriorated quite significantly. Currently I am still responsible for all family expenses, though, they are at +_R23 000 per month compared to R40 000 a year ago. We are married community of property. Our bond is 80% paid off. I have four children with my wife. My question is: How much could be my children support, spousal support and how much could be her children support since we will be taking 50/50 in all the assets we have.

    1. One need to look at the actual income and expense of the parties, and that for the children to guess an answer. It may be best to consult a lawyer on that issue.

  8. Good day. I got divorced in 1997,my ex husband resigned in 1999 and did not submit the divorce decree to his pension fund. He is a government employee. As you know the I could not claim from his pensionfund that time,before the “clean break” rule was implemented. When I applied in 2012 thats when I found out he resigned from the fund in 1999 and went back in the year 2000.My question to you, how will I be able to get my 50 percent of his pension interest now as per divorce decree.

  9. Good day. I got divorced in 1997,my ex husband resigned in 1999 and did not submit the divorce decree to his pension fund. He is a government employee. As you know the I could not claim from his pensionfund that time,before the “clean break” rule was implemented. When I applied in 2012 thats when I found out he resigned from the fund in 1999 and went back in the year 2012. My question to you, how will I be able to get my 50 percent of his pension interest now as per divorce decree.

  10. ..cont
    He did withdraw the divorce he had filed. I just cannot allow him to take a second wife. if he continues with this relationship he will be cheating. what options do I have

  11. Hi
    I married my husband in Dec 2016 we are young Africans in our early 30s, prio our marriage he had confirmed that he is not a polygamist 4 months into our marriage he said he wants to take a 2nd wife and he had started cheating with her. I went to get divorce forms, he later came back apologised and dismissing the polygamy idea so we continued, in Nov 2017 he filed for divorce over a minor argument, I was served after a family meeting he was sorry and blamed it on overreacting. He has since been diagnosed with bipolar and is on medication, now in 2018 he has brought back the idea of 2nd wife, I want to file for divorce what options do I have, he is wasting my time

  12. My wife’s company served me with a letter that I think is fraudulent. It’s not a divorce letter though. And I replied by stating that I will seek legal assistance asap. I’m away on business in Richardsbay.

    1. Spouse maintenance is not always paid. Usually, the parties agree to spousal maintenance being paid. If not, they must prove they are entitled to it. A party who is work, could still claim. But it is unlikely he or she will success if they earn a lot and can sustain themselves adequately.

  13. Good day, I am asking on behalf of a friend who is currently in the process of filing for divorce.
    The father (my best friend) unfortunately has a job that forces him to travel away from home during the week, thus he is forced to leave his son with his soon to be ex wife. They have already set up a parenting plan (this was done by her and he signed it off) the plan states that neither parent is to get future partners involved in the sons life unless the couple have been stable for a minimum of three months. The partner may be introduced to the child then but staying over is stil forbid until a longer relationship can be built. This is all fair and well, as it is in the best interest of the child. It also states that the father may have visitations with the son every weekend due to the fact that he is not around during the week. Please also note that the divorce is being filled by my friend (husband) due to her being unfaithful, and having an affair with a co worker for nearly a year. It has recently come to light that this woman has now allowed her new partner to move in with her. the boyfriend now sleeps in the same bed as the 2 year old son and the ‘ex’wife. she denies any relations to this man whenever my friend confronts her about it, however there is video proof as well as photographs as evidence that the man is in the boys life on a daily basis all day long. This means that the ‘ex’wife has broken her own parental plan. What can my friend do about this, and how can he go about getting custody of his child, allowing him to live with the grandparents until he finds a job that relieves him of his travel duties?

    1. We advise that you approach the children’s court in your area. They would be able to assist in the matter. The Court would look at what is in the best interests of the child.

    1. If you do nothing, the divorce may go ahead undefended. This means, the Plaintiff will get what he or she asked for in the summons. Otherwise, oppose the divorce and say what you want in your papers.

  14. Can you please help with the question of estate division after the dissolution of in community of property marriage; where an RDP government house was the sole property and extended. No kids. The one kid I found was the step daughter who is since an adult and have her own kids. What should happen to the property with regard to divorce decree mentioning equal division of estate?

  15. Good day,
    Wonder if you can assist me in any way. My neighbor is in the process of adopting children, who are siblings. Due to medical and financial reasons they are finding it difficult to keep both. Would I be able to take over the adoption of one child from them? If so, please can you explain the process. As my neighbor says they cannot do that, but that I can just somewhat foster him. I do not wish to do so as I would like to have full custody of him the lawful way. Any assistance/advice would be greatly appreciated.
    Thank you

  16. Hi im married to my husband by islamic marriage, we were married for 18months n then seperated due to him emotionally, mentally and financially abusing me. We share a 1yr old son. He refused to register our marriage, he is now refusing to give me a Talaaq (islamic divorce), islamically only he has the power to issue the divorce. I have asked him 3 times already. Can i go to court and ask for a divorce?

    1. Good day

      You may want to look into the issue of a Faskh. It would be best you speak to your Imam for advice on the issue. The Civil Divorce Courts would not be able to dissolve and Islamic Marriage.

  17. Hi, I just wanna know, what happens if I don’t sign the papers cause we have have a daughter and I don’t know why my wife is filing for a divorce.

    1. Good day

      We do not know what papers you are referring to. But let us presume its a Settlement Agreement. If you do not sign it, then the divorce will proceed defended. You must obtain an attorney to defend it.

  18. Thank you for your prompt reply. I confirmed with my attorney now, we have a date. Many thanks.

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